tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12695650.post112537177246143371..comments2011-02-26T08:52:22.490-05:00Comments on Beyond Lilith: when i pray for rain... it poursMara's Childhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16857970654160388767noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12695650.post-1125508558598657732005-08-31T13:15:00.000-04:002005-08-31T13:15:00.000-04:00You're not alone. Sorry for having to move away fr...You're not alone. Sorry for having to move away from Sutherland rd. But Coolidge corner is not far away. Give me a call whenever you want to talk. I'd be very happy to talk with you, even when I am busy with something. That is what a friend will do.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12695650.post-1125499760237876212005-08-31T10:49:00.000-04:002005-08-31T10:49:00.000-04:00Actually, I don't want to sound like touting absti...Actually, I don't want to sound like touting abstinence, as that's absurd. In addition, I also think we need to heed the reproductive pressure - part of our natural creative urge. (I don't think God meant you a nun.) Except that there's no hurry at it. Anyhow, don't be afraid of your internal unrest. Unrest is what makes life. Bring it on.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12695650.post-1125495602905563372005-08-31T09:40:00.000-04:002005-08-31T09:40:00.000-04:00" After all, what makes this different from just h..." After all, what makes this different from just hanging out with someone? It puts on pressures and expectations that simply don't need to be there and, what I find to be worse, It tends to encourage growth of a "relationship" before the growth of a friendship."<BR/><BR/>The key is to appreciate without trying to own that person. Unfortunately, few could resist the temptation in a world touting ownership, isn't it? But I think later you have rediscovered that you already own God and His plan for you, and that you are contented with that (enormous)ownership.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com